one of my hypothesis is that the perfectionism wich is combined with this disorder cause them want the relation ship in the best possible way... so magic... soooooooooooo idealistic... so perfect.. it causes them to specify huge amount of energy to manage the relationship... responsibility, perfectionism, and need to control, hypersensitivity, alltoghether (and some other unknown factors) cause them to show anxious attachment style....
on the other hand their childhood experiences cause them to think that they are tiring the other one by this kind of attachment.. permenant monitoring ....so they try to inhibit themselves.. try to hide allllllll of their fears..... and their harm avoidance cause them to go backward in the relationship and become avoidant. then what is the out come???????????
ya!! u are right...
avoidance+ anxious attachment style may form a new type of attachment: ambivalent!!!
and of course this type may bother any boday.....
a one who is sooooooooooo caring becomes avoidant suddenly...
what happens next?
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amazing, you think mathematically about psychology
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